Should I Seek Relationship Advice From Anonymous People On The Internet?


Or talk to people who may actually understand the situation/figure it out for myself?

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  1. #1 by Sk33m Engine on September 29, 2009 - 5:40 pm

    LOL!
    Oh, the irony.
    On the surface, it may seem that random questions posed to anonymous people may garner some faux answers, and oftentimes the wannabe comedians of the world provide exactly that. However, there is an innate objectivity when people can answer such questions untethered by any history or knowledge of the questioner. They can look at the question posed stripped of any acoutrements of personality. Even the comedian wannabees can provide insight when their responses illustrate some of the absurdities or quirks. That said, I would never suggest the use of Yahoo Answers as an exclusive resource for anything.

  2. #2 by Finnegan on September 29, 2009 - 5:44 pm

    I think some answers can be useful, especially is the person has experienced the same thing. . .
    Problem is when you ask strangers on the internet they can’t give an accurate answer, they don’t know you or the other person, they can’t read minds, they don’t know how you act together, there is no way they can give you an precise answer because they just know what you tell them.
    However, depending on the question, they might help you come up with explanations you had not otherwise thought of and generally help get your mind going so you can figure things out for yourself.

  3. #3 by -Hold On- on September 29, 2009 - 6:32 pm

    It would probably be a much better and safer idea to talk about it with one of your best friends or your sister if you have one and are close to her. It is probably not the best idea to be putting your personal love life on the internet for someone to read. Even if they don’t know you, it would be a lot less risky to just talk with one of your bff’s!!

  4. #4 by Jackie M on September 29, 2009 - 6:37 pm

    Well from some of the dodgy answers to relationship questions I’ve seen here (especially from bitter people with their own emotional baggage), I’d probably advice to never use the internet again! LOL
    But really, if you are mature enough to sort through the idiots, sometimes it can be helpful to get ideas and suggestions at least.

  5. #5 by Angry Penguin Rocker on September 29, 2009 - 6:43 pm

    You should listen to all advice, but remember that no everything about your relationship not only between you and knows the other person. So you listen to the advice, but they make their decisions from a specific part based. In order to assess the situation and decide yourself

  6. #6 by aj on September 29, 2009 - 6:50 pm

    it helps, activates you people on the Au

  7. #7 by spangela on September 29, 2009 - 7:18 pm

    well i wouldn’t let it be your only advice you receive. It can help but we can only give you advice on the info you give us, so if you leave little details out we may not be able to give the best advice.

  8. #8 by Matt on September 29, 2009 - 8:03 pm

    See all advice suspect. . . especially over the Internet. Does not mean you do not come to think of good points, but do not blame me or anyone else, if you have bad advice and it backfired. Experience is the best teacher.

  9. #9 by Lee B on September 29, 2009 - 8:47 pm

    Sure you don’t know us, but we have experience just like the people you talk to face to face and we don’t know you so we can be blunt.

  10. #10 by p!nk~p0l on September 29, 2009 - 9:27 pm

    all OF them! It is good to help different opinions and opinions sees you the decision meeting. you another view of the things can.

  11. #11 by soccerst on September 29, 2009 - 10:10 pm

    If you submit your information – you can see the ratings. You do not need to follow the advice, but you can see how others see the situation.

  12. #12 by PJ on September 29, 2009 - 10:52 pm

    strangers can “understand” the situation w/o knowing you and it is the best way to get unbiased opinions, here is the best place for this!

  13. #13 by Straight on September 29, 2009 - 10:52 pm

    lol isn’t that what you’re doing now? sorry, had to point it out. Yes, if you think it will help, but make sure you find a good place to ask first and probably not this one if it’s personal

  14. #14 by VanityPi on September 29, 2009 - 11:20 pm

    talk to your friends and figure it out for yourself, but this question is kinda seeking relationship advice over the internet :L lol.

  15. #15 by have you got the answer? on September 29, 2009 - 11:56 pm

    I want to do to put people on the Internet, and then there are people who have experienced, and good advice, and ask family or close people.

  16. #16 by Cole on September 30, 2009 - 12:27 am

    Yes you should. You should seek relationship advice from anonymous people on the internet.

  17. #17 by Will on September 30, 2009 - 12:33 am

    To get Anon Internet humans on an honest answer, because they do not know that you do not have and connection. Try both!

  18. #18 by LuckySch on September 30, 2009 - 12:38 am

    Yes, if you're friends can not give answers, the confidence of the people that you do not know, and not biased!

  19. #19 by ***broken hearted hearthrob*** on September 30, 2009 - 1:35 am

    Maybe a little bit of both.
    Always good to have insight from other people’s point of view. . .

  20. #20 by Riley's Mommy on September 30, 2009 - 2:24 am

    That’s your risk.

  21. #21 by Kenneth G. Houdek, n.e. IL.,USA on September 30, 2009 - 3:08 am

    Just me. I am very blunt.

  22. #22 by Julio on September 30, 2009 - 3:36 am

    Hmmm. first.

  23. #23 by iPod on September 30, 2009 - 3:46 am

    yes

  24. #24 by I C.U.P. on September 30, 2009 - 4:18 am

    isn’t that, why here?

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