We met on match.com and although we’ve never met in person, we’ve exchanged numerous e-mails and text messages. Recently however, that has slowed down. I want to tell her that we are progressing too slowly but I don’t want to seem overbearing. How do I hint to her that I would like us to meet up without making her feel uncomfortable?
#1 by Harley's Bombshell on July 27, 2009 - 8:11 am
Just tell her that you enjoy your conversations, but would like to take it to another level, by meeting face to face if that’s possible.
#2 by Invisible Girl on July 27, 2009 - 8:17 am
handsom farter?…not going to work…sry
#3 by sheepie on July 29, 2009 - 4:23 pm
pick a very public place to meet and suggest meeting her.
#4 by smile for me:) on July 29, 2009 - 9:45 pm
maybe tell her that your going to be in that area anyways so you guys should meet up
she would like it alot more if she thought it was more casual
if it was a set up thing she might feel like you are pushing a relationship on her if you go to where she lives and go out of your way for her on the first date.
#5 by Melissa R on July 30, 2009 - 6:21 am
match.com is more like a fun place. I think you should try their partner site that actually puts you through a chemistry profile and matches you up with the best possible chemistry matches you can get.
If you haven’t even met in person then I’d say this isn’t going much of anywhere. You should try the other sites that have much better success… I actually met my husband from chemistry.com IMO the profile test was deadly accurate, and I’m speaking from experience, so thats about all the proof you really need.
I found a website that offers a little info about chemistry for you and has a discount link. Check it out for yourself
#6 by Happy girl on July 30, 2009 - 7:53 pm
Don’t push it, send her an email saying hi how are you? Chances are she’s been busy. From a woman’s point of view I can think of nothing worse than a man who’d want to push me along in a relationship or meeting. Take it steady!
#7 by Chali on August 3, 2009 - 1:06 am
Don’t hint. Tell her you would like to meet for a meal. Make it an early lunch or a coffee and ask her to set it up. Just tell her how much you have enjoyed your conversations and would like to meet over coffee to see how you hit it off. If you let her be the one to choose the place and the time, she should be fine.
Good luck.
#8 by shina on August 5, 2009 - 4:54 pm
Uhm I think what u have to do first is get really really really close to her , and show her that ur a trustworthy person . Show her that ur serious about her and that u care for her and that u doesnt have any bad intention . I think u have try to get her trust first before asking her to meet up cuz she might think ur going too fast and that ur too agressive or something . Then if u get really close to her maybe say something like “I really hope I can see u in person” or something like that … I hope I help . Good luck , u can do it
#9 by LYNDA on August 7, 2009 - 9:18 pm
its great that you found some body. if the both of you are near each other go for it and meet by all means. you cant have a relationship by e-mails. you got to come face to face and see if there is any chemistry.ask her to hang out with you meet at a coffee house some place that is in the public for both of ur safety.if she dont want to meet you then let it go either she is playing mind games or is lieing about something maybe about the way she looks? i know alot of ppl lie and they shouldnt be honest about ur self…and let her no hey if we dont hit it off we can hang out and be friends..dont let ur heart blossom yet keep it at that budding stage…. good luck friend