Hello everybody,
My best pal of 12 years and I are not talking now- Well I cut him off. The problem is that, a girl we both knew approached him to spy on me for her. Apparently she’s in love with me and my pal is sort of telling her everything I do. Why do I know this? There are things that I only told my pal, but yet she knows the exact things.
One day I decided to confront them both. First, I confronted him, he didn’t give me a straight answer but I could tell that he knew his cover is blown. The next day, I met the girl and told that I love her and I want to be with her. She admitted that indeed my pal is her confidant and nothing is going on but she didn’t tell me whether or not she loves me. Since she knows that I love her, she’s trying to make me jealous by ignoring me. Tomorrow will be one month that she’s doing so.
My questions are:
1)Do I call her and see what’s going on?
2)Should I ignore her too and just move on?
3)Should I forgive my pal and try to rescue the relationship? What do you think?
Thanks y’all for your answers
#1 by Vashti on April 30, 2010 - 2:32 pm
1) Do I call her and see what’s going on?
I don’t understand what you have to say to her. You told her your love her. It seems to me the ball is in her court now.
2) Should I ignore her too and just move on?
See answer to #1 above
3) Should I forgive my pal and try to rescue the relationship? What do you think?
I think you need to talk to your friend about why he betrayed your confidence. I suspect he was trying to help. Tell him in the future, to stay out of your business.
~v