Me and my fiance have been together for almost a year and a half and we’ve had more than our fair share of bumps along the way, including having a child together. Despite minor discrepancies that are unavoidable in any relationship we have always been very happy together and we love each other very much. Recently she told me about a very dark chapter of her life, and since then everything has went downhill. When she left the guy that she was with before me she didn’t want to go back to her parents’ house due to domestic problems so she trusted a guy that she knew in high school and decided to stay with him for a while. Over a few weeks she said he became increasingly controlling and obsessive over her, eventually he had her trapped in his house and had her completely under his control. Keeping her under control with threats and all sorts of psychological terror, he soon began to repeatedly sexually assault her every day for months. She had to do sexual favors if she wanted to do ANYTHING. These included “Handjobs” Drawing sexual “furry” pictures depicting half people/half animal creatures. Eventually this lead to sexual intercourse itself when he started stealing condoms from wal-mart. He had a period fetish as well so he made her do it even more than usual when she was on her cycle. This went on for somewhere between 3-5 months until she eventually got the courage to get her sister to come rescue her. She never told ANYBODY what happened to her until a week or so ago when she came out to me and two of her friends. Charges have never been pressed and to this day he’s a free man. I was wanting to know if there is anything at all i can do to have justice dealt to this freak. This ended over two years ago so there isnt the slightest shred of dna evidence left. there is however one witness to these events, and i’m pretty sure i could get him to testify(although i never understood why he never helped before). There are also alot of people that could provide testimony to how disturbed and mentally sick this person is. The folder of sick drawings may still exist but I’m not sure. Any advice on that would be greatly appreciated. I would also like some advice on how to get over this so we can move onto being a normal family and raising our child together. This makes me second guess everything i say to her and it gets to the point where i cant sleep at night because of the horrifying images in my head. NOTE: we were together for a long time before any light was shined on this and everything seemed pretty much fine. We even had what i guess you would consider a “normal sex life”. Now everything is turned upside down and I find myself obsessing over this with my sanity decreasing more and more with each sleepless night. My love for this woman goes far beyond any other emotion I’ve ever felt in my life so I am looking for any advice I can get to help us move on. The sad thing is she’s already went through the anguish and moved on with her life. She found someone who at least treats her like a human being and she loves her child. That’s her life now and she’s managed to make alotta process in moving on. However, now that she’s told me everything I do nothing but obsess over it and it’s tearing me away from her. I just can’t bear the fact that this happened to her and I want something done about it. I dont think i’ll ever get a sense of closure from this until justice has been served but any advice i can get to make things better for our relationship would be equally helpful. I guess it breaks down to two questions in the end. 1. Is it possible to get someone charged with sexual assault after 2 years? 2. What can i do to move on from this and continue life the way it was before I knew about this?