You have been together for a while and things are ticking along nicely, so you think. Here is some relationship advice for men on how to keep your girlfriend.

When have you told your girlfriend the last time that you love her? Let me tell you, it’s not enough to show her your love her by taking the garbage out or helping with the household chores, or buying flowers. A girl wants to hear it, yes those 3 words “I love you” are really important and she wants to here them frequently.

It’s not that she undervalues what you are doing for her, but when a girl doesn’t hear those three words now and again, she tends to think your feelings for her have changed and you don’t love her anymore. Women are a lot more complex than men. They always think about their relationships, while men become comfortable. When there is no crisis, no arguments, no fights, things are going well right? That’s why, more often then not, men are totally thrown by a break up and have no idea how they got in that predicament.

So here is one of my relationship advice for men, tell her that you love her often. If you have a problem with that, practice in front of a mirror. You can also write her a note and put it on the pillow or even better write her a love letter. Do it rather sooner than later and let me tell you this is definitely a way on how to keep your girlfriend.

Have you noticed that in general when you have a conversation with the lady in your life she listens very carefully to what you are saying? Well, unfortunately a lot of men are not responding with the same attention. My next relationship advice for men is to put what ever you were thinking about aside and give your girlfriend your undivided attention when she is communicating with you. Good listening skills go a long way.

Honesty is very important to women as well. That doesn’t mean you have to be blunt. Tact and diplomacy are the name of the game. If the lady in your life is a bit insecure about her weight and asks you if you think she is overweight, for gods sake, don’t say yes, even if that is the case. You don’t have to lie either, just tell her that she looks good to you no matter.

And don’t forget, if something bothers concerning her tell her. Sit down and talk with her but please be tactful and use diplomacy.

Here you have some relationship advice for men, if you apply the above you’ll be surprised what this does to your relationship. It’s not rocket science. Good luck!